In season 2, episode 13, “Friends (How Many of Us Have Them?),” host Kadida Kenner uses Whodini’s 1984 hit “Friends” as a starting point for a deeper conversation about integrating communities, multi-racial friendships, and ensuring the safety of Black friends in predominantly white communities.

What does it really mean to be a good friend? And what does it mean for children facing racism in systems that were never designed with their protection in mind?

America should not strive for a “colorblind” society. We must acknowledge the role race plays in our children’s lives.

From Ruby Bridges and the legacy of school integration to personal dramatic life experiences from the hosts, this episode asks what are we teaching Black children about navigating the world, and what white parents must do in this moment to educate their children about the need to protect their chosen Black friends during turbulent times.

What we also unpack:
– The death of Nolan Wells and the public’s response
– Unwarranted criticism of Benjamin Crump and Colin Kaepernick
– Black flight from urban communities to suburban life
– Protecting Black children in predominantly white schools and neighborhoods from potential 21st century integration harms

Because friendship isn’t just about who stands beside you when things are easy. Sometimes, it’s about who shows up when it matters most.

Tell us: what responsibility do friends, families, and communities have in protecting and preparing children for life?